57 Powerful Romance Affirmations to Spice Up Your Love Life

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Romance can be described as “a feeling of excitement and mystery associated with love”, and I think that perfectly describes the feelings that romance can give us.

Because, while love is one thing that many people want to manifest, love without a little romance sprinkled in can sometimes get dull or boring at times. Romance is that part of the puzzle that spices up our love lives and makes things feel more exciting.

So you’re making a good move exploring romance affirmations to see what you can do about bringing in this kind of excitement. And you're in the right place!


The truth is, when a relationship is falling flat it might not be love that is the missing piece. Instead, you might just need to shake things up with a little more romance to get the “spark” going again.

And the same goes if you’re single too. In some cases it might not even be a committed relationship that you desire, but what you’re actually craving is romance and a feeling of being desired.

No matter what your relationship status is, romance affirmations can help to bring that excitement and mystery into your love life.

Because when we use romance affirmations to manifest more romance it can lead to feeling more fulfilled in our relationships and more desired regardless of whether we’re single or dating.

In this post we’ll be exploring a range of romance affirmations and how you can use them to bring more romance to your specific situation. Keep on reading to find out how. 

57 romance affirmations for couples and singles

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How do you manifest a romantic relationship?

Manifesting a romantic relationship works on the same principles as manifesting any desire with the Law of Attraction.

That means that in order to manifest a romantic relationship you need to get into alignment and embody the energy of the romantic relationship that you are trying to attract.

And how do you do this I hear you ask? Well it’s actually pretty simple once you know how.

Arguably the most important part of this manifesting process is “acting as if”. This is the process of acting as though you already have your desire in order to call it in.

It’s not about faking anything, but instead allowing yourself to embody the energy of your desire by connecting with your future self who already has your desire.


(This post will explain the process of acting as if in much more detail so be sure to give it a read.)

But to explain things simply now, when it comes to manifesting a romantic relationship acting as if means you need to embody the energy of romance in order to attract romance.

In other words, you need to act as if you already have the romance that you desire. You need to tune in to your own inner romantic (which already exists by the way!)

This means asking yourself what romance looks like to you and the energy you think more romance would bring in your life.

To do this try and envision your future self on a romantic date… what do you think you would wear? How would you speak? What would your posture/body language look like? How would you act? How would you do your makeup (if any)?

Your answers to these questions will let you know what the energy of romance means to you. And then your job is to embody it.

That means carrying yourself in a way that already gives off this romantic energy. For example, adopting a more confident posture and maintaining more eye contact if this is how you envision your romantic self.

Then by embodying this romantic energy, you will naturally attract more romance in your life.

Of course, I’m not saying that you should carry this romantic energy all of the time. It wouldn’t be appropriate for you to start flirting with everybody you meet or in a workplace for example!

However, it’s about being able to tune into this side of yourself with appropriate people who you desire a romantic connection with. As well as working on your self-worth and confidence to remove any blocks that are stopping you from calling more romance in.


How to use affirmations to attract more romance

As you might have guessed by now, manifesting more romance in your life is more about focusing on yourself and your own energy than it is about a specific relationship or person

In order to manifest more romance you have to be able to connect with yourself as a romantic being, but this is difficult for a lot of us.

If you have low self-esteem or confidence then it can be really hard to connect with that desirable side of yourself, and it can require a bit of work to get past that.

And this is exactly where romance affirmations come in!

Romance affirmations are a tool that can make it a little easier to connect with your romantic self, even if you’re not the most confident person. And they’re super easy to use too.

To use affirmations to attract more romance I’d recommend combining them with the mirror method, and trying to embody that romantic energy that we spoke about earlier in this post.

For example, you might get dressed in some clothes that make you feel romantic and stand in front of a mirror to connect with this energy while you say your affirmations.

A great opportunity to do this would be before a date or before your partner returns from work! But if you’re single and not dating then you can also do this exercise regularly to attract romantic opportunities like being asked on a date.

At first you will probably feel very uncomfortable, I’m not going to lie. If you struggle to see yourself as a romantic being then it’s going to be difficult at first to get past this barrier.

But the more that you practise romance affirmations and acting as if then the closer you will become to your romantic self and the more romance you will attract. It’s a process.

And for those times that the mirror method might be a bit too much to work with, you can use romance affirmations in other ways like writing them in your journal or using a manifestation ritual like the 5x55 method


57 love and romance affirmations to spice up your love life

I hope that by now you have a deeper understanding of how you can manifest a romantic relationship or attract more romance in your life by embodying more romantic energy and using romance affirmations.

And if you’ve identified that you’ve got some mindset and energetic work to do around attracting romance then you’re probably more than ready to get started with some affirmation work.

So I’ve compiled a list of some of the best love and romance affirmations to spice up your love life, regardless of whether you’re single or in a relationship.

This range of romance affirmations can help you to embody more romantic energy and attract more romance to your specific situation.

I’d recommend having a look through this list of romance affirmations and picking one or two affirmations that you feel suit your situation, and committing to working with these until you feel like you’re making progress.

Then you can revisit the affirmations and explore working with new ones as your situation changes or as you feel more comfortable and confident.

So with that being said, here are 57 love and romance affirmations to spice up your love life!


Affirmations for attracting romance

These affirmations for attracting romance are perfect if you’re single and you want to attract more love and romance into your life.

1. I am deserving of romance and affection

2. I am desirable

3. I am open to receive passionate love

4. I am ready to be swept off my feet with romance

5. I am a romantic being

6. The Universe wants the most passionate and romantic love for me

7. I am single and ready to mingle!

8. I am confident in the dating world

9. I love going on dates with new people

10. Someone is ready to ask me on a date

11. I am attracting romantic love into my life

12. I am desired by multiple people

13. I am a magnet for love and romance

14. I receive love and romance easily

15. I love going on romantic dates

16. I am naturally romantic

17. I am becoming more romantic every day

18. I naturally find joy in being romantic    

romance affirmations - i am desirable


Relationship affirmations romance

These relationship romance affirmations are perfect if you’re in a committed relationship and you want to ignite more romance, passion and desire into it.

19. My partner shows me deep, passionate love

20. I deserve mind blowing passion in my relationship

21. My relationships are always fulfilling

22. My partner wants to treat me with romantic gestures

23. I deserve fulfilling relationships

24. My relationship is always exciting and new

25. My partner and I are always trying new things

26. My partner is always planning romantic surprises for me

27. My partner is just as exciting to me as the day I met them

28. My partner and I’s connection is always growing stronger

29. My partner and I are deeply in love

30. I feel good being intimate with my partner

31. Romance and sensuality come naturally in my relationship

32. I easily express my romantic feelings to my partner

33. My relationship is joyful and fun

34. I am becoming a more romantic partner

35. Romance helps my partner and I develop our love

36. Romance makes our relationship stronger

37. Romance brings positivity to my relationship

38. I am good at thinking of romantic gestures to make my partner happy

39. My partner and I enjoy spontaneous romance

40. Being romantic is an effortless part of my relationship

41. My partner and I naturally find opportunities to be romantic   

romance affirmations - my partner and i are deeply in love


Affirmations to make him obsessed with you

I use the word obsessed lightly, but these romance affirmations are perfect if you want to feel more desirable and be wanted by that special someone!

Of course you can replace the word “he” by “she” or “they” if the person you desire has other pronouns. 

42. My partner is crazy in love with me

43. I deserve to be treated like a queen

44. I am always on his mind

45. I make him feel good

46. I am his favourite person

47. I am so desirable to him

48. He loves being romantic with me

49. He always wants to move mountains for me

50. He wants to be with me all the time

51. He’s always thinking about the next time he gets to see me

52. He loves going on dates with me

53. He cannot get enough of me

54. I am his biggest priority 

55. He loves doing special things for me

56. He is my biggest fan

57. He feels so much passion for me

romance affirmations - i deserve to be treated like a queen

 

And there we have it, those are 57 of my favourite love and romance affirmations to spice up your love life.

I trust that there is at least one affirmation in this list that will help you connect more to your romantic self so you can start attracting the romance that you deserve.

But if you think that you still have more work to do in this area then that’s okay too.


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romance affirmations to spice up your love life

About Esther

Esther is the founder of Through the Phases.  Her mission is to guide others to grow to their full potential and create their dream life using spiritual and personal growth practices. Read more about her story here!

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